Is Mars with Rahu always bad for married life?

A person with North node conjunct Mars is like a wild stallion who will only do well with another free spirited strong natured personality like themselves.

Even then, conflicts and quarrels are inevitable. Even with the best synastries and aspects, ‘guna’ matching etc.

Why?

Well to begin with, Mars is a very individualistic planet and people with a strong Mars or prominent Mars are usually very good at individualistic professions like Entrepreneurship, Sports, Medicine, Performing arts, Politics etc.

A strong Mars can give the native a strong career in a variety of fields not traditionally associated with Mars. This is because Mars is above all, the energy of ‘dominance’ and you can harness this energy to be dominant in any field you are naturally aligned towards.

Secondly, dealing with ‘conflict’ is an intrinsic part of this individual’s life journey.

So if you’re the kind of person who can’t handle conflict or imagine married life to be a breeze that you just surf, sorry this individual is not for you. In fact, run in the opposite direction. That’s not the theme of this conjunction.

Lastly, Mars is the energy of desire and sex. It has sudden ups and downs.

So you either are compatible physically or you aren’t. It’s really that simple. Mars dominant people don’t have a lot of patience to put up with things, situations and people who don’t gel well with them.

I’ve seen many people married to Mars conjunct North node people and their marriage is like fireworks in the bedroom and it’s good for them, they like it, it works. Simple!

Then I have seen people who just couldn’t keep their marriage together because they never felt ‘fulfilled’ in the union. This turned them off and shut them down completely to a point they lost interest in intimacy. However since it’s a North node conjunction, obviously you can’t control it and then it all comes rushing it out one day and you may end up acting on your impulses in a way that is regretful.

What is Angarak Yoga? What are the remedies for Angarak Yoga?

Now in the same way, when Mars is conjunct the North node, the native is here to develop their aggression, will power, sexuality, focus, drive, authority and power.

See, Mars represents the most basic instincts on planet Earth.

Sex, aggression, focus, drive are traits that are common to all species on the planet from the lowliest of reptiles to high level primates.

These instincts are just expressed in different ways based on the species.

So when the individual is here to develop their Mars, it is quite often not a pleasant experience at all.

Why?

Because as I said above, malefic planets will make you work to the last drop of your sweat and blood. They don’t let you have things the easy way.

What this does is, it means that your soul has basically signed a contract to get into all kinds of troubles that Mars can get you into and out of in this lifetime.

Notice ‘in to’ and ‘out of’.

This can mean, on the basis of the placement, a wide range of experiences that are not pleasant in the normal waking experience of life at all.

Why? Because a thousand maybe million things can happen to you to test your courage and survival instinct.

And the majority of these experiences are not going to be pleasant at all.

From accidents to surgeries, sexual violence, war, hemorrhages, conflicts with criminals and/or law enforcement, life threating circumstances and struggles, to sporting competition, military environments etc. , this can be anything.

Mars is a tough planet to deal with when it is afflicted in your chart. Any planet conjunct the North node can be considered but ‘afflicted’ and strong.

Early part of your life, it will be ‘afflicted’ because although strong, you don’t really know how to channel it well so quite often it can get you intro trouble. Sometimes it behaves like a weak planet because the native completely ignores the planet as it is under the influence of the North node.

However, the entire force of the North node is behind developing this planet and its relevant traits to such a deep extent that even at its weakest, this planet forms your most dominant trait.

Now another thing is that if you have Mars retrograde and conjunct the North node then.. phew.. it is i-n-t-e-n-s-e.

Why?

Because retrogression sort of compounds the relevance of a planet in your chart.

Retrograde planets are brighter and hence ‘stronger’.

Retrograde planets have a bigger impact on the overall energy of the native.

Retrograde planets point out towards past life ‘karma’ in that area of your life.

So let’s say you have Mars retrograde conjunct the North node, then we can definitely say that you are here to develop Martian traits in this lifetime because of some past life trauma or unfinished business.

I’d like to include a notable example here of a famous person with this ‘yoga’ before moving to the remedies.